> My husband of 19 years is telling me that he
believes that it's
> acceptable to the Lord if people:
>
> 1). have sex with other people, if everyone agrees and no one is
> hurt
>
> 2). there's nothing wrong with pornography
>
> basically, that if it feels good and hurts no one, that there isn't
> anything sexually that is forbidden...anything.
>
> Could you please give me some scriptures that dispute this and your
> words for what you have read here. I know in my heart that all this
> is wrong. God gave us sex and it is to be enjoyed but only between a
> husband and wife (and pornography, to me, is like having other
> people in the room).
Karol,
Your husband is a sinner of heart. He needs to repent from this evil
thinking, turn to the Lord, ask for forgiveness, and accept Jesus
Christ as his own Savior.
As for Scriptures there are many:
One of the ten commandments is, "You shall not commit adultery." (Exo20:14)
Jesus said, "'You shall not commit adultery'; but I say to you that
everyone who looks at a woman and lusts for her has already
committed adultery with her in his heart." (Matt5:26,27)
Proverbs
6:32 says, "The one who commits adultery with a woman
is lacking sense; he who would destroy himself does it."
There are many other Scriptures but this will give you something to
work with.
> Also, is there such a thing as a support group
for sexual
> addictions? Maybe even one for the wives?
Here is a support group you need subscribe to:
http://www.themarriagebed.com/
> Jesus is the Lord of my life...
This is wonderful to know. May the Lord guide you in all that you
need.
